After I came back from India in last July 2011, we had a quick decision to make. Partially was because of David had some starting troubles to speak. We contacted some speech pathologists in New Jersey, but felt they are making it more complicated. And David is so adamant, if he feel he don't want to listen he won't listen at any cost. So I thought it will be easy breeding ground for David and Rocky to grow up in India with Ben's parents. And also if everything works well Ben can work there for sometime, which will also make her feel little better about herself.
But I started missing my kids more than anything and kind of understood why my mom used to be so much worried about us when we moved to different states to work and Robin to priesthood. Its so special about that parent-child relationship in which some magical imaginary ties exists and surely one reason why Indian families are so fast bound even though we are far apart. Today when I got David's picture after so many months I felt so special about it. Felt missing their innocent ages not enjoyed.
Kids are smart too they can sense you more than anything, if any little friction happens between me and Ben, David will come in between and make some funny scouts to make us laugh or goto Ben and hug her and kiss her. Its so surprising how they understand these things and react smartly in their on ways. David seems to be left hander, that's what I'm hearing from Ben. He's using his left hand more than right.
But I started missing my kids more than anything and kind of understood why my mom used to be so much worried about us when we moved to different states to work and Robin to priesthood. Its so special about that parent-child relationship in which some magical imaginary ties exists and surely one reason why Indian families are so fast bound even though we are far apart. Today when I got David's picture after so many months I felt so special about it. Felt missing their innocent ages not enjoyed.
Kids are smart too they can sense you more than anything, if any little friction happens between me and Ben, David will come in between and make some funny scouts to make us laugh or goto Ben and hug her and kiss her. Its so surprising how they understand these things and react smartly in their on ways. David seems to be left hander, that's what I'm hearing from Ben. He's using his left hand more than right.
